Soul Choices
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Hey, I'm Shun.
El Brazil (00:37.815)
I am Shannon.
Shun (00:39.524)
And we're the host of Wifey and Baby Mama. Happy Thursday, family, and happy Thursday, Shannon.
El Brazil (00:45.57)
Happy Thursday to you too, girl.
Shun (00:48.146)
Hey, welcome to episode 10 of season 5 peeps as always we thank you all for spinning another Thursday with us Wow is right shit Every week to get more real right? She's like wow like wow is correct Flying past us tonight guys we have an extended version of us because we have you guessed it another guest the beautiful
El Brazil (00:53.485)
Wow.
El Brazil (00:58.734)
Yes, flying past.
El Brazil (01:15.864)
Yes.
Shun (01:17.382)
Excellented and deep mrs. Shiloh Wallace will be joining us to help us break down our topic tonight title soul choices now I don't anticipate Shannon this being a very popular topic. Okay, however Like most of our topics it is necessary So Shannon and I are gonna go there tonight and miss Shiloh was brave enough to come along for the ride So without further delay Shiloh, why don't you introduce yourself to the audience and tell them about all that goodness? God put out when he made you
El Brazil (01:30.35)
Hmm
Shilo (01:46.809)
Hello everyone. Thank you for having me ladies. Thank you for the invitation. I'm very honored to be here. My name is Shaila Wallace and I am the proud mother of four children. Three boys and one girl. I am divorced. I am an entrepreneur. I own a couple businesses. I do homeless housing for men and women.
El Brazil (01:52.654)
Yeah.
Shilo (02:16.568)
I sell life insurance in New York State. I have a rental hall that I rent out and I do 360 video. I love evangelism. I am also ordained a pastor. I am a spiritual counselor, a mentor and I'm sorry, a spiritual advisor, a mentor and a pastorial counselor. And that's about it.
Shun (02:45.778)
and she loved her grandbabies, y'all.
El Brazil (02:46.338)
That's it.
Shilo (02:48.324)
yes, I have two grandchildren that are two in one. So they keep me very busy. Yes, they keep me very busy.
Shun (02:50.386)
And she loves them y'all So don't be thinking shallow got time cuz the babies be having her a lot so I'm just kidding
El Brazil (03:00.706)
Ha ha ha ha.
Shilo (03:01.398)
They take up, I had to make everybody go upstairs to make this video. I'm like upstairs now, everyone.
Shun (03:06.898)
Shiloh, thank you so much honey with all that you do for joining us. Seriously. We appreciate you you taking the time
Shilo (03:15.352)
Thank you, thank you.
El Brazil (03:15.894)
Yes, thank you so much.
Shun (03:19.558)
We are honored to have such a positive soul and such good energy in the room. So we hope we're gonna make it count tonight, Shannon. So as I stated tonight, stop it might not be very popular, but you know, we all thought it affects a lot of females and no one talks about how damaging soul choices can be Shannon. And you know, in fact, me is just as detrimental as a, as a soul tie, if you ask, you know, so we're gonna give you our two cents and let you decide if you agree.
El Brazil (03:24.724)
yeah.
El Brazil (03:38.446)
Mmm.
El Brazil (03:43.278)
Yeah.
Shun (03:47.911)
Disagree or remain indifferent and as you you know, you all know that listen to us every week There's no right or wrong on wife and baby mama here We simply give our opinions and we're all allowed to have them. So miss Shiloh This is your first time to kick in with us here wife and baby mama So the first one will be directed to you. You ready?
Shilo (04:03.681)
Yes.
Shilo (04:07.574)
Yes.
Shun (04:09.208)
Alright, so in your opinion, do you feel it's safe for women to entertain men who say, you know I'm not looking for anything long-term with anybody, you know, everyone I deal with is just a friend Do you trust that?
Shilo (04:23.702)
Well, I think in 2025 that it really totally depends on the woman and what her desires and wants are and her morals and values. Because if you are a woman of God, for most women of God who have some kind of faith,
Shun (04:39.782)
Okay, very important.
Shilo (04:49.748)
that would not be acceptable because you know your worth, you know your value, and you know what God has intended for you. But if you're not in a faith, if you're not a woman of God per se, then this may be something that you don't mind doing because a lot of people just want companionship. A lot of people might just want somebody to help them with their bills. Some people may
not want to be married. They might not want that commitment. Some people may have already been married and don't want to be married again because they weren't happy the first time. I think that it really today depends on the wants and needs of women because today women are the highest earners, the most educated. And a lot of times they feel like, what do I need a man for?
El Brazil (05:43.159)
I'm sorry.
Shun (05:47.634)
Mm.
El Brazil (05:47.852)
Right.
Shilo (05:47.902)
besides those intimate times. And a lot of them don't need them for that anymore because of other things. So.
Shun (05:51.25)
huh.
Shun (05:54.963)
So Shannon what does that sound like that sounds like a previous episode we had Shiloh when my other we had another guest and she called it Microwave society or popcorn. They want everything quick and fast. They don't want to put in the work and this is mirroring that conversation That's why it's so funny. Shani. You remember that episode? So
Shilo (05:57.823)
What the?
Shilo (06:04.853)
Connect.
El Brazil (06:10.69)
Yeah.
Shilo (06:11.839)
Yes.
El Brazil (06:14.284)
Yeah, right. yeah, yeah.
Shun (06:19.314)
I mean, we agreed then and I gotta agree now that everyone's not on that same page. How do you feel about it, Shannon?
El Brazil (06:24.75)
Right. Yeah. So when there are situations in, have friends that really want to be married. They really do. And they've expressed that to the partner, whoever they're with. I've even had a girlfriend, they give the ultimatum. I'll tell you a story about one friend. She gave the ultimatum. You know, you better marry me by this time or whatever. I want to be married. And this was years ago.
several years ago when we were still, you know, kind of young in our 30s. And he finally broke down and gave her a ring, but then he refused to set a wedding date. So it went another several years without an actual wedding date. And every time she would bring up something and they would get into an argument, he'd say, well, at least you got the ring, you got the ring. And as if that was enough to...
to appease her or satisfy her. And of course it didn't work out, but all the years that were wasted, you know, it's like, would you, yeah, why would you throw away all of that when you know it's what you really want? Like Shiloh, you said there are women that don't want to be married. There are plenty, like for me, it took me a long time to get married because it's not what I wanted. It just wasn't, it was never my dream. I wasn't the little girl dreaming of.
Shun (07:29.752)
And so that's what I'm getting at right there
Shun (07:38.112)
N.
El Brazil (07:50.73)
the wedding with the wedding dress and all that stuff that just wasn't my thing. But majority of women, they do want to be married. So hanging on to someone and wasting your precious years thinking you're going to turn someone around, I don't know. It's just a waste.
Shun (08:10.05)
I I talk about soul choices Shiloh, so I'm not more a source what you just spoke of Shannon I'm thinking about the guys who tell you straight up listen, this is who I am and I'm gonna keep you 100 I'm gonna keep it. I'm gonna keep it 100 I don't trust it when a man tells you, know, listen, I'm emotionally unavailable But you know we can do this I don't I don't trust it and I feel when a man says that it's gonna end one of three ways, you know first or
One of three things are going on. I should say first they have someone in the cut that they've had for years They ain't going nowhere, you know, and he doesn't publicly present other women and she's okay with it He can sleep with the whole continent as long as he says, know, you know, you my girl But this this is what i'm doing. That's good enough You know for both of those people with the one who's at home The one who's coming in has a choice to deal with that right second. He's really emotionally fried like he's done, you know
And in that case, you know, I feel that's dangerous, you know, they're really holding out on you As a I don't know Not you per se they're really holding out in themselves because they emotionally feel they can't handle that right and third is Distill lying, you know, I'm not the selling down type, you know, and that's just gonna be you know We could do this and then women go for that, right? But you know what ends up happening? They end up thinking I'm gonna change them
I'm gonna I'm gonna just take my time and I'm gonna you know what you spent a lot of years with that man Just like you said Shannon, but but not on the present you guys are not in a relationship He's told you what it is, but you've spent two three four five years with this man. Eventually, he's going to he's gonna love me He's come he's gonna want me and now again, that's just my take on it But to me, I'm too unhinged for either of those scenarios So now I've learned to stay clear and keep my garlic on me for them kind of men. I don't want that
El Brazil (09:38.391)
Yeah.
Shilo (09:39.168)
Right.
El Brazil (10:09.218)
Yeah, yeah. And when I look at...
Shun (10:15.718)
I was going to ask Shiloh, have you ever volunteered to ride that emotional unavailable man roller coaster? And how did it turn out for you?
Shilo (10:25.705)
Well, I would say in my earlier years, yes, probably because I didn't really want to be in relationships either. So it was like a win-win for me because I wasn't ready either. And I was like, I really didn't need you to be available in that way because I'm not available. But once I made up my mind that, you know, I wanted to live right.
Shun (10:32.796)
Mm-hmm.
Shun (10:39.088)
Okay. Okay.
Shilo (10:52.29)
and I wanted to have a family and things like that, that wouldn't be acceptable because I feel like men, like you were saying, if a man tells you he doesn't want a relationship, believe him. Nothing can change his mind, ladies, except for him, except for him. And a lot of times you're just a placeholder until he finds the one, until he finds the one. And then he could have been with you for 20 years and marry this woman in six months.
El Brazil (11:04.619)
Mm-hmm. That's right.
Shun (11:04.658)
Mmm. Mmm.
Shun (11:12.791)
Absolutely.
El Brazil (11:21.838)
Mm-hmm. Yeah.
Shun (11:21.926)
Come on Again, i'm i'm too unhinged for that. So yeah ladies y'all to consider that because it does happen or again Shiloh, like I said, they got that one sitting in the cut that's been there for 20 years and she ain't going anywhere but his obligation to her will keep him from marrying anybody else because she gives him permission to be as big as and as free as a dog as he want to be so either way it won't be you
Shilo (11:22.067)
You know, so...
Right
Yes, yes.
Shilo (11:35.655)
Exactly.
Shilo (11:46.886)
Exactly. So that's when you have to go in the... No, no, I'm sorry. I just was saying that's when you have to go into the valley of decision and decide, wait a minute now, am I going to waste my good years? Don't let nobody... Listen to all the women that's listening to this. Don't let no man, excuse my English, waste your good years. Okay. Because they will.
El Brazil (11:48.238)
Right. Right.
Shun (11:49.474)
I honestly feel if a man go ahead
El Brazil (11:57.208)
Ha
Shun (11:57.548)
hahahaha
Thank
Shun (12:06.354)
Thanks
El Brazil (12:11.598)
That's right. That's right. Yeah. Yeah.
Shun (12:13.328)
It's a fact. It's a fact.
Shilo (12:16.606)
They will string you along. will, you know, do everything that you want them to do except for commit. And.
Shun (12:24.89)
And I feel like go ahead. I'm sorry. I keep jumping in on your point
Shilo (12:26.619)
No, I was just going to say in. And you deserve more than that. You deserve more.
El Brazil (12:31.234)
Yes, yes.
Shun (12:33.766)
All I want to sneak in real quick Shannon is this if they start the conversation with that, please get on go ahead Shannon What you have to say if a man starts the conversation with that, that's not where you want to be. Go ahead, Janet
El Brazil (12:40.024)
Yeah, yeah.
Shilo (12:43.145)
All right.
El Brazil (12:44.3)
Right, right. And as a mother of a grown man, my son, he is one of those where he, and I get on him all the time. I'm like, how did, where did I go wrong? But he always thinks there's something else better out there. You know, this girl's good, but I can't commit to her right now because you never know when my Beyonce gonna come along or whatever. He's always got, you know,
Shilo (13:01.03)
Yes.
Shilo (13:07.578)
Mm-hmm.
Shun (13:11.653)
Mm-hmm.
El Brazil (13:14.05)
that I out there thinking there's something better than what he has. And he's had some wonderful women in his life, but he refused to commit because he's always thinking there's something else. I can't settle down now because, know, just as soon as I do, you know, that one's going to pop up. So, yeah, so definitely don't believe him.
Shilo (13:30.597)
Yes.
And I just put up a status about that probably last week about how men don't settle down because they are always looking for better. And you know where I've seen this the most? In the church.
El Brazil (13:44.929)
huh.
Where? wow.
Shun (13:50.268)
Mmm. wow.
Shilo (13:50.64)
You got men that are pastors, pastors, men that should be trying to find a wife to keep him out of trouble.
Shun (14:03.186)
Mm-hmm.
El Brazil (14:03.512)
Yeah, yeah.
Shilo (14:03.784)
Not only to keep him out of trouble, but to be his help me, you know, if you if you a man and you're doing something, you know Not to get too biblical, but you know God gave Adam Eve because he was working and he needed help So if you're a man that's doing something you deserve help If you're a man that's not doing nothing, you don't need no help
Shun (14:09.554)
Mm-hmm.
El Brazil (14:19.33)
Yes, yes.
Shun (14:19.451)
Mm-hmm.
Shun (14:25.06)
Absolutely.
El Brazil (14:31.16)
Right.
Shilo (14:31.24)
A lot of these men in the church, in the pulpit, that's traveling and doing all of these things and preaching every Sunday or whatever, they really are still looking. You mean to tell me the Lord haven't presented nobody to you? The Lord haven't given you four sisters and said, all four of these are options? No, come on.
El Brazil (14:50.189)
right.
El Brazil (14:55.374)
Yeah, yeah, it's funny you mentioned that Shiloh because I don't know there's been in recent weeks maybe the last month or so a big scandal about a well-known pastor that's actually down here in the south. don't know you all follow Larry Reed. You know what I'm talking about. Okay. So this woman after 10 years with him.
Shun (14:56.37)
Mm-hmm.
Shilo (14:58.639)
So, you know... Uh-huh.
Shun (14:59.922)
Thank you.
Shilo (15:14.936)
Yes, I saw that. Yes.
El Brazil (15:22.612)
him keeping her secret or whatever, you know. She finally, I don't know what happened, but finally after 10 years and him being with I guess all these other women or whatever and he's well known pastor, she blasted him, you know, put everything out on social media. Now, you know, I'm not, I'm not down with that, but just looking at her and just how beautiful she is and
I have family that actually goes to his church and they talk about, you know, what a wonderful, sweet woman this is. And they couldn't believe it because they had no clue what was going on. Cause he kept her a secret, even though she's right there in the congregation with all of them. And no.
Shilo (16:04.208)
Mm-hmm.
Shun (16:05.426)
So they wouldn't they weren't married. This is just the lady he's singing. Okay, I'm sorry. Okay, go ahead I don't know the story. Okay, so they were just no, it's okay They're just seeing each other and finally she got tired and put him on blast Is that what happened? What?
El Brazil (16:09.998)
for, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
El Brazil (16:16.952)
Put them on blast. Yeah, but yeah, but a whole lot of other stuff. Yes, she revealed so much. No, no, he's never been married. He's like what you described, one of those pastors that will refuse to settle down and strings these beautiful women along for years and years and years until they get fed up. And then he's always in the pulpit crying saying, please pray for me.
Shilo (16:21.306)
was also married correct is this the same story he was also married okay okay okay
El Brazil (16:43.884)
You know, I need help. need forgiveness. I need, you know, this, that or whatever. And, yeah, I find it, just funny that you would mention that you see it in the church a lot because, yeah, that just happened. Like, wow.
Shun (16:58.182)
That just happened.
And and my thing is I wonder what he was telling her those whole ten years, know What what did he tell you to make you stay ten years, you know? I Mean I've been foolish enough to do the thing twice They these men both of these men said hey listen, I cannot do this I'm not an emotional person, you know, we could do this if you want them like, you know, you know, okay, we can do it
El Brazil (17:08.11)
Hmm
El Brazil (17:13.55)
Yeah.
Shun (17:27.266)
I'm like Shiloh say, you know, I'm choosing to do this because you know, I ain't really got time either Let me tell you something 10 years Shannon the first time it ended because I got tired of pretending not to be in love You know after I don't care what we say after a year or two of physically being with someone engaging with them in the bedroom Mentally, you can say what you want to with your mouth a woman's heart is gonna fall unless you just you know Just hard as a rock and I got tired of pretending that I didn't feel that way. So I had to let it go, you know
El Brazil (17:48.59)
Hmm.
Shun (17:55.27)
But I knew the rules so I didn't trip on him. I just you know, I didn't try to force it on him I let him walk away. I walked away The second time I end up, you know fighting for my life. We're still together And we married for the second time But he told me when I first met that boy. He told me straight up listen here I'm not not good for you, you know that and I'm like, I just I just want to be with you I'm gonna change you gonna change you gonna fall in a baby listen
El Brazil (18:07.054)
Mmm.
Shilo (18:07.62)
Hahaha!
Shun (18:24.228)
Sometimes I still wonder why I listen to that man Okay, we be i'll be fighting with my life every single day and it's not infidelity. Trust me He was Unemotionally ready and it's taken years for him to come up to this place And baby, I still need jesus and all 12 of his disciples to hang on some days. Okay? so Trust me Baby, wait on the lord don't when that man tell you keep walking baby or let him go get himself together and come back and find you again
But I'm gonna tell y'all I speak from experience when I say when they say it they mean it Okay, but I was just so in love with my husband. I said well, baby, we're gonna make you ready We're gonna we're gonna get you right, bro. God took him 15 years and I came back again. Okay, you back? Let's go. Let's try it again and God just keep him in my neck with that flip-flop like you you just don't listen but I Loved him and I think if you have enough Shiloh made a very good point. You have to be spiritually baby intact. Okay, I
Shilo (18:58.252)
That's right.
Shun (19:22.994)
Think because I'm so spiritually in tune is why I'm able to keep fighting for my marriage, baby If I wasn't say this thing would have been over a long time ago. So it take a special Special kind of food remember that song y'all. Okay, then it ain't sound off time, but it takes a special Kind of fool baby they walk into what I kept walking into but for some reason my heart just would not it wouldn't leave me alone but anyways, so I don't wanna
El Brazil (19:39.767)
you
Shun (19:49.52)
I don't want to you know damper anybody or try to discourage you like Shiloh say if you're not spiritual if you this is what you want to do a go for it all we all we come on this show to do is share our Experiences and as you can see none of those situations any of us ended well So in my opinion, I just if a man starts with that, I'm emotionally unavailable then believe it That's just you know, that's just my opinion
Shilo (20:11.553)
Yes. And sometimes like you said, you said it's not infidelity. Sometimes being emotionally unavailable is worse than infidelity because because when people shut down is like the worst thing, especially when you're a communicator and you just like, just talk to me and they just not there, you know, but I say all that to say that people that's been married
Shun (20:21.938)
Talk about it talk about it
Shun (20:35.378)
Thank
Shilo (20:39.776)
30, 40, 50, 60, 70 years, whatever. They've gone through something. They've gone through a lot.
Shun (20:44.818)
We say that all the time Shannon honey five years Shannon tell her about it to 50
El Brazil (20:46.572)
Mm-hmm.
Shilo (20:50.984)
Yes, they've they've gone through a lot and I always say that marriages. just want to say this little description of how I think of marriage for those that are listening. Mirage is like making mashed potatoes. And you got two dirty potatoes right out of the ground. Starting from the bottom, you were raised how you were raised, he was raised how he was raised, right? Everybody thinks their way is right.
Everybody thinks if their mother and father was together, their way was right. You know, so you're trying to bring these two dirty potatoes together. And the first thing you got to do is rinse them off, right? You rinse them off in hot water, and that's a little painful. And then if that's not enough, now you got to peel away the skin. All that stuff that you don't want to let go of, all that stuff he doesn't want to let go of, and you got to peel it away, peel it away.
El Brazil (21:40.908)
Yeah.
Shilo (21:47.132)
And then just when you think we made it, now you gotta be cut into pieces.
Shilo (21:54.579)
You literally cut into pieces. So after you cut into pieces, you put into boiling water and the heat is turned up. The heat is literally turned up. And then once you become pliable, pliable from being put in the fire, now you can take those potatoes out.
El Brazil (21:54.592)
Yeah.
Shun (22:08.46)
Talk about it.
El Brazil (22:09.72)
Wow.
Shilo (22:21.106)
drain away all the mess, all the impurities, everything, and put it in a bowl and mash it together. And that's how the two become one.
Shun (22:32.348)
Mmm, that's deep.
Shilo (22:32.913)
That's the only way by being pliable. And like my father would say, being like a rubber band, being able to stretch. Having forgiveness and compassion and. Compromise. And all of those things, you know, so I tell people because I marry people, don't enter into it lightly. And this is coming from somebody that's divorced. Don't enter into it lightly.
El Brazil (22:34.156)
I love that.
Bye.
El Brazil (22:43.416)
Mm-hmm.
Shun (22:43.74)
Yeah.
El Brazil (22:51.736)
Yes.
Shilo (23:03.069)
Because it is work. It is some of the hardest work you'll ever do in your life. It is some of the hardest work you'll ever do in your life. But if you're willing and you're able and you really, you know, it's something you wanna fight for or something, I do mean fight. it's something. Like on the color purple, all my life I had to fight.
Shun (23:04.242)
Mm-hmm.
El Brazil (23:04.396)
Hmm.
El Brazil (23:11.394)
That is true.
Shun (23:21.496)
I mean literally did you hear me say fight for my life literally?
El Brazil (23:23.95)
Hehehehehe
El Brazil (23:29.345)
I had to fight.
Shilo (23:32.152)
So I say all that to say it's, you know, if you really truly love someone, it's worth it. You know, because love, true love is worth fighting for.
El Brazil (23:32.843)
Yes!
Shun (23:41.916)
Mm-hmm covers covers and it covers a multitude. Trust me. It covers if you don't understand love, baby Please don't get me because there's a lot of stuff you gonna look at yourself and then be like Ralph Tres if it is in love Not gonna be that song. It's gonna be like what kind of love what manner of love is this? That I still wake up trying to keep fighting for this marriage, you know, it will truly make you understand So that's why tonight's topic is called soul choices
Shilo (23:46.458)
Yes.
Shilo (23:56.54)
Mm-hmm.
Yes.
El Brazil (24:00.706)
Right.
Shun (24:12.05)
It's way beyond dating soul choices, you know, you got to be ready to deal with these unemotional men But before we jump really quick, I want to say one thing and I know it may sound crazy But I must say this to the fellas I applaud you gentlemen that actually tell women the truth because you don't you know, don't don't sneak me Don't you know real me in don't don't pull the wall over my eyes for you men who show up and say hey Look, this is who I am. I
Shilo (24:14.235)
Yes.
El Brazil (24:30.356)
yeah.
Shilo (24:31.706)
Yeah.
Shun (24:41.668)
Applaud you for that because it leaves that woman a choice, know, some women are cold-blooded like Shiloh say they ain't thinking about no Bible or no Quran and nothing else and they don't they're gonna go round for round with that they are they unemotional to so I You know, it's for some people it's for some people but if you're concerned about your soul Don't do it and I don't you know, I don't like how some women like me, you know, you have a career is someone maybe
Shilo (24:54.883)
Right.
Shun (25:08.27)
I have a career. got 50 kids. running. I'm running three businesses. I'm writing books making movies I may not have time for no more emotional available man. You get what I'm saying? Let's do this that to each his own That's not what we're saying here when it comes to your soul Be careful with that choice because I'm telling you I know you saved and you know that God can do anything but fail yeah, we know that but can't no man change himself, but the Lord can change him
But he's not even gonna change. He's not gonna ask God to change him for a woman He doesn't want so no matter how you look at that thing if that's how that man presented self you and it says You're not it, you know So, please Please don't fall in love with the man that tell you he's emotion unavailable because you will end up with your heartbroken
El Brazil (25:45.686)
and home.
Shilo (25:46.084)
That's right.
El Brazil (25:57.122)
That's right.
Shilo (25:58.936)
And it's nothing like heartbreak, honey.
Shun (25:59.932)
So either one of you ladies got anything? girl talk about it And you don't know a woman can say, know and fellas please You can look at a woman until and like I said when you're being physical with that woman every day all day for five years Trust me. She falling in love. She can tell you what she wants to with her mouth but if that's not your intent you might want to limit that physical contact too because Thus where the soul ties come into play
Shilo (26:04.922)
Oof!
Shun (26:26.94)
So if you don't want a soul choice, if you don't want that woman to be connected to your soul, don't go create no soul ties, because it's going to happen no matter how you try to fight it.
Shun (26:58.032)
Do either of you ladies have anything to add to the dialogue tonight before we go to our wrap up?
Shilo (27:05.739)
I just want to say, know, ladies, when you're dating men ask a lot of questions. Have questions written out that you want to know. Ask them about his parents, if they were together, if they weren't together, and if they were together, what was their relationship like? You know, how do you discipline? How do you, I mean, it's just, it should be over 200 questions you ask somebody, you know.
Shun (27:16.71)
Mm-hmm.
Shilo (27:35.403)
Not all at once, ladies, because you're going to scare them away. You know, they can't think that fast. But I think that it's just a lot of questions that need to be asked. And they need to ask you questions too, because I always say they taught us in school the process of elimination. And we need to use that in dating. I know I do. I use the process of elimination and I'll just cut you so fast. You'll be like, what?
Shun (27:55.154)
Mm-hmm.
Absolutely.
Shilo (28:03.595)
No, I'm sorry. This is not gonna even work for just dating, you know. you know, just know what you want, know what you don't want and don't settle.
El Brazil (28:10.434)
Right.
Shun (28:10.993)
Right.
Shun (28:21.51)
What about you, baby? Mommy got anything else to add?
El Brazil (28:22.678)
Awesome.
Nope, nothing else.
Shun (28:27.494)
Well tonight's wrap-up will be short and sweet because we've really we pretty much said it all in the dialogue And it's really not a whole lot of wrapping up we need to do when it comes to the topic of soul choices We encourage everyone to remember this God gives us all free will and plenty of wonderful men filled with goodness and the ability to love us properly So, please don't waste your choice on someone who tells you they are not emotionally available for you
El Brazil (28:33.518)
Mm-hmm.
Shun (28:55.162)
To give you all the goodness that you deserve and trust me your soul and your freedom Depends on it And that's my wrap-up for the night Don't be wasting my good time you're welcome
El Brazil (29:02.923)
Yeah.
All right, thanks John. All right, okay, here we go. Time for the sound off.
Shilo (29:07.178)
Alright.
Shun (29:17.646)
Alright, we've come to our sound off segment of the show This is where we announce a song related to the topic of the night while also hoping to add to your musical playlist give your ears something different to listen to we use songs from all categories and genres and tonight's song is by Lady Antebellum Need you now now that's a country song. Yeah, I love a good country song My father was a truck driver and we were spend summers with dad in the truck. We would
Shilo (29:26.666)
Thank
Shun (29:44.604)
going to these rural areas and all they had was country music. But you know what I found? That some of the best soul soothing music in the world. So if you've never listened to country music, I would encourage you to jump on over. But for tonight, you can start with Lady Antebellum, Need You Now. And Shannon, where can they go to give their suggestions or jump into this music of our best?
El Brazil (30:07.276)
All right, well, I just want to say real quickly, Lady Antebellum, they have now changed their name to Lady A, you know, to be more politically correct. But in order to send your feedback and any comments on the topic tonight or even on the song, would send that to wifeyandbabymama at gmail.com. That is wifeyandbabymama at gmail.com. All right.
Shilo (30:10.154)
you
Shun (30:18.0)
Hehehehehe
Shun (30:36.3)
Shannon don't be correcting me and telling my age because they was lady Annabelle back then but I'm just I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding Just teasing Shiloh, thank you for joining us we heard it was a wonderful conversation tonight
El Brazil (30:41.28)
I know they were back then before cancel culture, yes.
Shilo (30:52.488)
Thank you so much, ladies.
El Brazil (30:52.596)
Yes, yes. Yes, awesome having you. All right.
Shilo (30:58.896)
Love what you're doing. Keep up the good work. Be encouraged.
El Brazil (31:02.894)
Thank you. Thank you. All right. Until next week.
Shun (31:03.282)
Thank you.
Shun (31:10.202)
We love you all. Goodbye.
