Wifey and Baby Mama

Shun (00:36.45)
I am Shun.

Shannon (00:38.13)
Hi, and I'm Shannon.

Shun (00:40.01)
And we're the host of Wifey and Baby Mama. Happy Thursday, family. Happy Thursday, Shannon.

Shannon (00:46.224)
Happy Thursday, Shun.

Shun (00:49.57)
Welcome to episode 8 of season 5 my people it's a mind boggling shannon that we're already halfway through season 5. Oh my goodness And It's fast. Oh my god an understatement Well, we thank you all for tuning in to spend yet another Thursday with us and tonight that us includes our honorary host and boo Mrs. Tamara's and tell now I know y'all thought I introduced her as honorary because you know, she's the bomb and she is that it's all true

Shannon (00:54.536)
No.

Yes, it is going by fast.

Shannon (01:12.648)
Yeah.

Shun (01:18.51)
However, she earned that title from being our go-to guests, you know, you all let us know how much you guess Yeah, they always say how much they enjoy our trio So when we host together, it is our goal to keep you guys entertained and informed with a smile So preferably should join us for a few more Shannon

Shannon (01:23.472)
you got that right

Shannon (01:36.408)
Yes, I have to give a hand clap and a welcome, welcome, welcome back.

Shun (01:42.402)
If we if we can keep this chick in the country y'all if we can keep her in the country We're gonna have her here. So tomorrow we are long past the introductions. Your reputation speaks for itself So say hey to the peeps give them your title and we can get this thing started

Shannon (01:45.192)
you

Yeah.

Tamara Zantell (01:57.9)
Hey y'all, thank you so much for having me back. My favorite place to be, Tamara Zantel here, CEO and founder of Raising a Mogul and Legacy Brand Creators. I'm all about family, faith, and a little fun. You know, while we build our family legacies.

Shun (02:03.073)
You

Shannon (02:10.088)
Yeah.

Shun (02:13.089)
Absolutely. Can't leave out the fun. Welcome back girlfriend, baby mama. You ready to get into this thing?

Shannon (02:14.294)
All right.

Shannon (02:18.664)
you

Shannon (02:22.737)
Let's do it.

Shun (02:24.537)
All right, tonight's topic is titled contender versus companion tomorrow, know what to do honorary guest we come into you first and today's society of materialistic expensive things Do you feel tomorrow that it's your circle of friends? Is your position with your co-workers, you know people that you're around in your opinion in your opinion I'm sorry as people settling more are they settling more these days taking on partners just to have help

because they're tired of looking for the right one? Or do we have more solid soldiers out here holding that front line waiting for that special someone? Who y'all think winning these days tomorrow? Contenders or companions?

Tamara Zantell (03:04.11)
I'm gonna have to go with the contenders. I really think that people are just in this in this

stage of like good enough for nowness. I think that people, you know, they're looking for people to check a few boxes, you know, but you might not really get a full seat at my table. Because I think we want, we want happiness. We want joy in this like microwave society. We want it right now, right? We want to feel good because so much of life is life thing and that's making us feel bad. So those instant joy moments, those dopamine hits, I think that's more exciting and entertaining than it is, you know,

Shun (03:13.758)
Hmm?

Shannon (03:13.768)
Mmm.

Tamara Zantell (03:40.24)
building a real partnership with someone that you might want to do life with because you know that gets a little messy and you got to do the real work and if you're working everywhere else it's like I just want to have some fun right now.

Shun (03:50.913)
What do you think Shannon who's winning in your book baby mama

Shannon (03:55.572)
Yeah, yeah, I mean, you know, in I agree with tomorrow because yeah, in this in this day and age, people don't want to put in the work in relationships anymore. It's because it can be, you know, it's hard. It's challenging at times and, you know, anything that's easy, you know, you want what's easy.

and you want something that is not going to keep you up at night. know, it was like, yeah, I just want to be able to lay down and go. Right, right, right.

Shun (04:27.777)
So you're right, because I need my rest to do them 15 other things I gotta do.

Tamara Zantell (04:32.149)
Exactly.

Shun (04:35.243)
Well, you know, I'm telling y'all I'm not the in the police audience I need you guys to click fully and understand this topic is not just geared toward women, know, it's not for women I see a lot of men these days that have they've drawn the line. So, know me I'm a hopeless romantic y'all I know it's gonna bite me it has bit me time at the time it continues to bite me but I Lord Jesus, but I love love so

Tamara Zantell (04:55.97)
Bitten.

Shannon (04:56.68)
Yeah.

Shun (05:01.503)
But I'm gonna tell y'all I feel the way that you guys do everybody want it quick. They want it fast They don't want any problem. So you're right pop it in the microwave. Give it to me quick. Let's go But I have found myself even in Lord is so shameful to say even in a full-blown marriage. I find my romance on my TV Jerry Maguire. I still got a rule back Just right. I find my romance and the movies

Shannon (05:22.152)
Yeah, yeah.

Shun (05:27.147)
Cuz you know what? It's just not happening a lot on earth these days. Okay, it's just not happening So I don't even think so much as people choosing not to do the work It's just it's just those kind of people don't exist. They don't believe in doing that work anymore, you know, and it's just it's sad It's just really sad but in my take with the men in the world, right? It's like when it comes to continue versus companion. I'm starting to see a lot of my male friends. Y'all go the other way They're just choosing to stay single

Shannon (05:31.516)
Ha ha ha ha.

Shannon (05:41.01)
Hmm.

Tamara Zantell (05:56.494)
Mmm.

Shun (05:56.786)
They have drawn the line with the rib removing and the booty adding in the silicone. They're like enough You know We're losing all the natural women, you know, we're the women that cook and clean and wear clothes, baby Because when they get these surgical clothes is out the window. All right, it's over with everything's on display So do y'all understand? It's crazy out here. So I never thought I feel bad for the men

Shannon (06:02.909)
yeah.

Tamara Zantell (06:13.506)
Right, right.

Shannon (06:19.366)
Yeah, but what meant? Yeah.

Tamara Zantell (06:19.534)
Yeah, I agree with that. And I also think what we think about people changing and, you know, as society, it's like you have to look a certain way, you have to show up a certain way. Expectations change as well.

Shannon (06:29.96)
Mm-hmm.

Tamara Zantell (06:32.734)
So when you talk about men deciding to stay single, I feel like some women, not all women, have made it hard for the men to compete. When you have the women going and attracting a contender that's willing to exchange something for very little of nothing for that body.

Shannon (06:51.528)
Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.

Tamara Zantell (06:55.688)
Exactly. So it's all about these momentary wins and then the real men or the men that wants companionship are like, I can't compete with that or I'm not going to compete with that because I want regular or normal if there's a such thing or I just want us to hang out and have a conversation and she's somewhere else thinking like, no, where's the money at? Where's the things at? Where's the drama at?

Shun (07:06.465)
That's right.

Shannon (07:06.503)
Right.

Shannon (07:17.03)
Yeah. Yeah.

Shun (07:18.081)
She's trying to book her next flight to Dubai.

Tamara Zantell (07:21.174)
Right. Yeah. Yeah. Expectations about what a relationship looks like has significantly changed as well. So, you know.

Shannon (07:22.632)
Yeah, yeah.

Mm-hmm.

Shun (07:28.641)
So that she can post it on social media and let everybody know here I am. Like that has really gotten in the way of our relationships too you guys. This social media, everybody wanting to be or needing to please the I, you know, instead of pleasing the mate that you have at home.

Shannon (07:33.192)
Right.

Mm-hmm.

Shannon (07:41.671)
Yep.

Tamara Zantell (07:44.173)
Right. Yeah.

Shannon (07:44.348)
Yep. Yep.

Tamara Zantell (07:45.646)
I think it's important to note that, you know, there are a lot of not just, you know, we talked about the men, but, you know, and the women, but there's a lot of people, uh, singles out there that have spent years really just trying to hold things together, you know, alone rather than demanding true companionship as well. Right. So they don't really, they're like, it's just easier because you know, like we started out by saying, think every, everything is so, it feels so heavy and hard. It's like, it's just easier for me to just be, you know, do all of it by myself because

Shun (07:58.754)
Mm-hmm.

Shannon (08:07.589)
Mm-hmm.

Tamara Zantell (08:15.6)
especially for women as we get older, it's like, you can't do it, I'm just gonna do it myself. So it's like, I'll just do what I can get where I can get it, because the rest of it, I'm not gonna get it. So that real mutual reciprocal safe love, it's like, it's starting to feel like, does it even exist? You know what I mean? So I think it's time that we start to really have a really good conversation as a community where we need to think about, companionship, it isn't just romance.

Shannon (08:22.787)
Exactly.

Shun (08:22.88)
Yeah.

Shannon (08:31.463)
Yeah.

Mm-hmm.

Shannon (08:44.349)
Right.

Tamara Zantell (08:45.41)
The other piece of this is like, because we can relate it to choosing friends, business partners, clients, you know, and even your relationship with yourself, true companionship too. So I think once you're centered in those areas, only then can you really start to open up and be like, you know what, I might want a life partner. And what does that look like for me?

Shannon (08:54.664)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

Shannon (09:03.942)
Yeah, and I remember a famous, he was a composer from the way back from the 40s, 30s, whenever 30s, 40s, 50s, Cole Porter. And he was gay, but he was married and his wife knew, you know, everything, but she loved the life and she loved, they were best friends. She loved the companionship.

Shun (09:04.48)
Whoa.

Shannon (09:31.963)
And I remember a few years ago, one of my coworkers, when I was working at the bank, she said to me, she wouldn't mind being a beard, you know, to a man. Yeah. She said, because the lifestyle is all she was looking for and the companionship. So I thought that was very interesting that there are women that are comfortable being in that type of role, just so that they can have.

Tamara Zantell (09:43.922)
wow.

Shannon (10:01.82)
the things.

Tamara Zantell (10:03.244)
Yeah, not just the things, if we think about materialistic, I don't know if that's what you meant, but also the consistency, right?

Shannon (10:08.442)
Yeah, yeah.

Shannon (10:12.517)
yes, right, right.

Tamara Zantell (10:12.974)
the things that come along with true relationship, the safety, right, of knowing that when I get home, you're still gonna be here. Like, I know what you're doing out there, but these are the things that make our relationship work, and I know I can count on those things. Versus when I was out in the world, or I was entertaining, or I had contenders, it was a little, you know, I didn't really know. Every day was a little bit different. And some people crave consistency, especially as they get older. It's like, no, I wanna know that every Tuesday looks like this.

Shannon (10:18.748)
mm hmm. Yeah.

Shannon (10:25.51)
Mm-hmm. Right.

Shannon (10:38.034)
Right.

Tamara Zantell (10:42.122)
I'm not one of those people, but I don't want to, I don't, no thank you. No thank you. Cause I like spontaneity. I like juiciness. You know, I like all the good stuff, but I still want you not to play no games with me. You know, so here's that.

Shun (10:46.044)
Exactly!

Shannon (10:49.71)
Right? Right?

Shannon (10:54.714)
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I agree. I agree.

Shun (10:57.001)
Right, but now now I want to take it to another place. this couple that I know Kind of similar though They were not you know, no one was gay and no one, know, no one's living it, but they were two divorced people, right? So it's four people. They're two different couples They divorced their partners the man of the one relationship and the wife of the other decided to get married because Everything that that one man didn't like about his wife the other man adored

Tamara Zantell (11:26.958)
Mmm.

Shannon (11:26.984)
You

Shun (11:26.985)
so Yeah, i'm like, I don't know about that but it It's what they chose right and I don't think it was for physical or love I think they just bonded over what wasn't being offered in their last relationships if that makes sense And that to me was kind of one man's trash is another man's treasure You know what i'm saying? Like her husband complained about the woman she wasn't to him, but the other man

Tamara Zantell (11:44.31)
Yeah, it makes sense.

Tamara Zantell (11:50.232)
Yeah. Yeah.

Shun (11:56.348)
You know he adored her for it and they are still together. So although that isn't a textbook hallmark romance I don't see it as a contender because they are both they both satisfied the other's desire You know what I mean? Now, what are either you think about that?

Shannon (12:11.271)
Yeah.

Tamara Zantell (12:14.456)
think that it's important to keep, first be very clear about what it is that you want and what makes you happy. And then I think when you find it, you grab it, you hold on, you hold on for dear life. Like, that's it. Like, this is what I want. Let me.

Shun (12:21.931)
Mm-hmm.

Shun (12:26.763)
with both hands.

Shannon (12:27.718)
Yeah, yeah.

Tamara Zantell (12:29.89)
We're both hands, like you just do not let it go. If it's working for you, and I think that's little caveat there, right? If it's working for you, because I think sometimes we can trick ourselves into thinking that something is working for us because of the moment, those dopamine hits or that momentary satisfaction. So when people are out here in this contender space, it's like, this is working for me. It's like, but really, because you're going home alone, you're sleeping alone, you don't really love to be alone, right? So are we filling all the voids? There's lots of other questions there to ask.

Shannon (12:45.798)
Mm-hmm.

Shannon (12:55.464)
Mm-hmm.

Tamara Zantell (12:59.894)
the one person where you feel safe and there's that consistency and you're still getting the fun and the know the trips and I mean I know in a healthy relationship we can still have all that I believe in that still you know but I do think when you find it and you're clear and both people on the same page it can it could absolutely be amazing

Shannon (13:12.285)
Yeah.

Shun (13:12.458)
Me too.

Tamara Zantell (13:20.904)
Having said that, I do think there is value in the alone journey. So this is separate from the contender companion. What does it look like as I move from...

Shannon (13:21.522)
Yeah.

Tamara Zantell (13:32.074)
entertaining this contender lifestyle and wanting to prepare myself for a true companion. I might need to spend some time alone. So that's when I'm talking about me being my own companion and really understanding what it is I want. You know, what does my future look like? What does an ideal partner for me look like? And then once I find it, I'm clear, they're clear, and we're off to, you know, frolicking through the flowers, hopefully.

Shannon (13:55.017)
Yeah, yeah. So that in that alone time, think it is valuable to have that so that you, well, if you use it correctly, to truly understand if you're being truthful with yourself, because a lot of people lie to themselves and they think they really want one thing and they really don't.

Tamara Zantell (14:16.931)
Mm-hmm.

Shun (14:17.162)
Mm-hmm.

Tamara Zantell (14:20.546)
Yeah.

Shannon (14:21.756)
They want a certain thing for different reasons. Maybe they think, okay, I want this guy because he's the guy that walks in the room and everyone yells, Tony's here, whatever. Yet that guy isn't that guy that you want every day because he's looking for that recognition for that need to be seen. Yes, yes. You're drawn to that because it's appealing maybe

Shun (14:36.565)
Mm-hmm.

Shun (14:44.886)
Every day.

Shannon (14:51.846)
you know, because he is quote unquote the star of your, your neighborhood or whatever. but if you're really truthful and you go deeper than superficial stuff, you might recognize that even the person that you were with, or you might have let go, they were, they were good, you know, cause we tend to, you know, walk away from folks sometimes that we think,

we don't need or don't want when because of the shiny object over there, you know, like I had a girlfriend, another example, very quiet, very, you know, I'm quiet. So we didn't really click because too quiet people don't really get along that great. But exactly, exactly. It's like pulling tea. We're both sitting there pulling tea.

Shun (15:28.769)
Mm-hmm.

Tamara Zantell (15:28.782)
Right.

Tamara Zantell (15:40.856)
Well, what do you talk about?

Tamara Zantell (15:48.59)
you

Shannon (15:48.771)
But she wanted that guy, know, the shiny object, the guy that walked in the room and everyone's yelled, you know, she thought that was what she needed in her life. And of course, he's that guy. So he wanted that girl. And so he tried to date her because she's a beautiful girl. But he eventually, you know, had to tell her, hey, you're just too boring for me because, know.

Tamara Zantell (16:13.935)
my goodness. my gosh.

Shun (16:14.173)
Hahaha!

Shannon (16:17.266)
There's nothing I can do with you. You're just so boring. And it broke her heart and I felt bad for her. you know, I had to tell her, said, stop going for the shiny object. Go for someone that you can sit down and drink a quiet cup of coffee with, you know, whatever. Enjoy sitting beside, you know, not speaking, watching a movie. But a guy like that is always going to want to be seen. He's always going to be moving and shaking and bouncing and, you know, doing all the things that

It's not for you. So when I say that alone time can help, yeah, that will help you really be true to yourself and say, yeah, that looks good. Yeah, that excites me. But at the end of the day, that's not going to work for you.

Shun (16:48.321)
that you're not into.

Shun (17:01.597)
Goes with the old saying everything that looks good and good for you Now to me, you know, I That that situation I brought up that I referenced with the two couples me and the wife and husband me and each other I think it's Admirable if that's what they choose because in the end right is all our decisions But to me I still need some physical attraction, you know I'm saying but honestly, I will never ever base that on longevity again, know Shannon

Shannon (17:05.032)
Mm-hmm.

Shannon (17:20.828)
Yeah.

Tamara Zantell (17:23.274)
Mmm.

Shun (17:28.769)
You and I always talk about that pretty boy problem, you know, they're pretty they pretty to you But they pretty to everybody else too. Okay, so Even though but even now Girl we can have it. Okay, let's go. All right. All right, we had it so Good even now I think of how shallow that was looking back on you know, they had to be on the resume Okay, no, you got the question with me

Shannon (17:28.776)
Hmm.

Tamara Zantell (17:31.576)
Mm-hmm.

Shannon (17:31.91)
Yep,

Tamara Zantell (17:35.867)
my goodness. I feel like we need a moment of silence for that.

Shannon (17:41.448)
Yes, we do, we do.

Tamara Zantell (17:47.021)
Okay, okay.

Shannon (17:50.344)
Yeah.

Tamara Zantell (17:55.832)
Yeah.

Shannon (17:56.137)
Green eyes, curly hair, yes.

Shun (17:58.666)
child had to be on the resume but this old lady right now knows that they don't pay not one bill okay not a one that does not hold your hand in a crowd and it does not pull you close to them at night so while i do require some physical attract attraction that is no longer one of my main bases

Tamara Zantell (18:10.414)
Hmm.

Tamara Zantell (18:17.538)
Yeah. Mm, that's good. Maturity though, right? Maturity and experience. And again, going back to being super clear about what it is that you want. And then that an attraction and intimacy and connection goes way beyond that physical attraction. initial, of course that's what brings us together, but what keeps us together is really what we're talking about.

Shun (18:21.439)
Mm-hmm.

Shannon (18:21.714)
Yep.

Shun (18:24.009)
That's it.

Shannon (18:30.13)
Right.

Shun (18:30.497)
Absolutely.

Shun (18:37.203)
And I realize if you.

That's right. And if you keep bumping your head on the same Negro something's wrong with you Because to do the same thing and expect different results is a definition of what? Insanity absolutely. So at some point you got to stop blaming the men and ask yourself. What am I doing wrong? You're choosing wrong. You're choosing wrong

Shannon (18:46.268)
He he he he he.

Tamara Zantell (18:46.958)
I'm

Tamara Zantell (19:01.326)
Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah. I think there's one other thing I want to, I just thought about while you were talking on that is that, you I don't know if we, we kind of got to this yet is this idea of, well, you know, we talk about, you know, people entertaining the contenders out of choice because of superficial reasons and this is what I want, whatever. But is that really a defense mechanism or way of managing or dealing with the loneliness?

Shannon (19:01.8)
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Shannon (19:27.717)
yeah.

Tamara Zantell (19:29.644)
You know, we talked about loneliness of like, you get through, you mature through it and it's like, okay, I just want to be with myself, you know, as I prepare for that companionship. But it's like, what about, it's like, you're really, really lonely, but you're, you know, you're showing up big because, you know, you know, the loneliness kind of tricks you into entertaining the contenders. You know, you get what I'm saying? You know? Yeah.

Shannon (19:40.752)
Mmm.

Shun (19:50.433)
Sure enough, it's a fact. It's a fact.

Shannon (19:50.534)
Right.

Yeah.

Tamara Zantell (19:54.958)
And I think there's a lot of fear behind that too, which is another thing that we could bring up, know, because companions should really ask for your heart. Whereas a contender just borrows your time and sometimes time is easier to give if you especially you've been hurt before, you know. So, yeah, just some thoughts. So you're out there listening. It's like, I'm paying attention. Like I got something here for you too.

Shannon (20:03.144)
Hmm.

Shun (20:07.231)
and riding your Lamborghini.

Shannon (20:07.645)
Yep.

Shun (20:14.538)
Nah.

Shun (20:20.117)
That's a fact now before we go y'all know I got to make my TV reference I always have to give our audience something to ponder so that they can kind of have an actual real life because they don't know Jane is to win and John Barbara that we were just talking about and Tonya they don't know them so Just to bring it home. I just want to this reference real quick before we wrap up You guys all know and I think Shannon we talked about it last Last season or not the season before it was last season because it didn't last that long the Real Housewives of Atlanta

Shannon (20:20.585)
Hehehehehe

Tamara Zantell (20:33.067)
Right.

Shun (20:49.665)
Miss Portia Williams now, you know remember Shannon she had married her friend's husband, right? And then we then she put on that she made this reference on the blog tomorrow that said My husband's ex said he had red flags But there were no red flags for us because I was the one you know The ex-wife wasn't the woman for him and she went on to say that she brought out the king and her husband Well, guess what court her neck King been in for the last year divorce court. Okay

Shannon (20:53.574)
Yeah.

Yep, yep.

Tamara Zantell (20:56.077)
Yeah.

Shannon (21:14.599)
He he.

Tamara Zantell (21:19.114)
Mmm. Wow.

Shannon (21:19.341)
Yes,

Shun (21:19.411)
So My girl, you know, my girl made out with 40k a month and a big old house y'all big old mansion now while it could have just been a relationship gone bad Mr Simon said miss porche was only with him for his money to begin with I wanted to hit him with the Fred Samford you big dummy. What else do you think? your friend Why would I want Tamara's husband?

Shannon (21:40.498)
Ha ha ha ha ha ha.

Shun (21:45.218)
If he's a millionaire when she just got to tell me he ain't crap, know what I'm saying? Why else would I want him? I can change him. Not as it is some women that do believe that don't get me wrong. I once believed that no, that's a full lie. But my girl just you know, I like Porsche so we just gonna hope that it's just a marriage gone bad. But I wanted to bring that up for a reason. He saw a companion I think and I think she saw a contender.

Tamara Zantell (21:50.606)
Bye.

Shannon (21:52.36)
you

Tamara Zantell (22:07.264)
Mm-hmm. Yeah, I agree with that. do. Absolutely. Interesting. That unequally yoke-ness is a situation.

Shannon (22:09.498)
Yeah, yeah, for sure.

Shun (22:14.017)
I know.

Shannon (22:19.321)
Mm-hmm, right.

Shun (22:21.065)
and gets you in a situation ship too. All right, either one of you have anything else before we wrap it up for tonight?

Tamara Zantell (22:22.964)
Right.

Shannon (22:30.728)
No, nothing else.

Tamara Zantell (22:33.356)
You know, guess my final thought would be, know, whether it's in my life, my business, my brand, you know, I just feel like for me, I'm done entertaining contenders. You know, I want what I pour out to actually pour back in. You know, I want companions, real, mutual, whole partnerships. And if that means I walk alone for a while, that's okay. You know, and I look at that, that's peace and not a punishment.

Shun (22:33.568)
Alright?

Shun (22:45.6)
No, that's right.

Shannon (22:49.648)
All right.

Shannon (22:57.382)
Hmm.

Shannon (23:02.279)
Love that.

Shun (23:02.419)
I know that's right. I think before I wrap up that I'm have to go to the other side of that I think I want all the purses and the porches and the right in the Lamborghini cuz guess what I'm and This thing don't work out baby me and love gonna part ways. I have given love my whole life can't have no more So I think I'm gonna be a lonely contender out here if it goes to the left Find me in left field looking for the Lamborghini's. Okay, cuz me and love was apparently

Tamara Zantell (23:13.794)
Mmm.

Shannon (23:19.432)
Ciao.

Tamara Zantell (23:28.536)
Yeah.

Shun (23:31.903)
We don't go together.

Tamara Zantell (23:34.22)
We don't go together. I love it. That's good.

Shannon (23:34.439)
now.

Shun (23:36.514)
All right We'll wrap up Hey, we'll wrap up tonight's topic contender versus companion with this Everyone is looking for something and believe it or not. It's not always love some people are brutally honest when it comes to this topic So let's all be grown and save each other a bunch of heartache by pretending with that You know another piece of advice we like to give is once people tell you what they are looking for

Don't try to turn it into something else. You know, I made that mistake so many times and it never ends well, which is what I was speaking about. So if a man or a woman says that they don't want to be in a relationship, they're never the type to hold hands. They don't believe in kissing in public. Believe them. Don't go get in your own head and say, I can change them. You can't. Let it be what it is. Okay. But also be aware of contenders opposing as companions.

You know, there are those people who act like you know You mean the world to me and all they want to do is drive your Lamborghini and get forty thousand dollars a month when it's over So you'll be easy out there That's my rapper

Shannon (24:50.96)
All right. Awesome. Okay, here we go to our sound off segment.

Shun (25:02.993)
Alright, we've come to the sound off and this is where we announce a song related to the topic of the night while also hoping to add to your musical playlist We use songs from all categories and genres and tonight's song is by Eurythmics and it's titled sweet dreams. I Think I think this is a song Shannon that's full of wisdom and it's gonna be suitable for all generations It will never ever in my book Shannon not be a hit. Okay, but if you don't believe me

Shannon (25:20.934)
Please join.

Shannon (25:31.868)
Mm-hmm.

Shun (25:33.203)
You log off, you check it out, and you decide for yourself. And Shannon, tell them how they can give us our opinions or join our musical fest.

Shannon (25:40.514)
Yes, and I love that song. mean, it was, I actually love the band. Yeah. You and I.

Shun (25:44.865)
Sweet dreams are made of these I'll give you all this I'll give you all a hint though as much as I love music I Had to call my girl say Shannon how I say this because you know what y'all I was all these years y'all 49 years of living y'all thought that was David boy now y'all go ahead and have a good one Shannon I thought that was him all these years and I was like what? Who's this? I was like Shannon how you how you say that Shannon?

Shannon (26:04.328)
Yeah, your rhythmic your rhythmic yes, yes Yes, then your feedback and comments to wifey and baby mama at gmail.com

Shun (26:14.613)
Y'all know I'm country. I'm country as any any backyard barbecue. Okay, so Shannon tell them how they can write in and let us know about their thoughts on sweet dreams

Shannon (26:31.214)
Once again, that is wifey and babymama at gmail.com. We look forward to hearing from you.

Shun (26:40.199)
All right, well, I think that's our show. Mrs. Tamara, thank you so much for joining us. It's always a pleasure and we hope you come back on for a few more. Give us a few more.

Shannon (26:44.207)
Yeah.

Tamara Zantell (26:48.846)
Absolutely, absolutely, anytime. Thank you for having me. I had fun as always.

Shannon (26:53.752)
Oh, Thank you. All right. Until next week.

Shun (27:01.321)
We love you all, bye.